My daughter posted this loving tribute publicly on her Facebook page this past December. Thank you sweetheart. All my love. Mom OXOX

I want to thank my Mom Jodi Parmley Kirkwood for always loving who I am no matter who I choose to love . Growing up I was called all kinds of names but she never makes fun of me or laughs at my struggles. She clears my insecurity and makes me feel so much stronger as a woman, I talk to her and it’s like the whole world’s opinion of what I do goes away and I feel confident again. She never says she will leave if I do something wrong and has fiercely been protective over me since I was diagnosed bipolar 3 years ago. Mental illness is hard and not laughable. It is a real cross to bear and I’m happy to have her support no matter what I say or do. Merry Christmas , can’t wait to spend Christmas day at Ruth’s Chris with you and Jack and family. Love is all that matters when a family breaks apart. The kids matter. I wish others saw her inner beauty like I can. God loves us in spite of our sin so why can’t we love each other in spite of our humanity. She is my best friend and I’m proud to be her daughter too. We don’t choose our parents but they chose us so the best love we can give is respect, kindness, love, and compassion. Xoxo

My daughter and I. Christmas at Ruth’s Chris 2019.