Narcissists like to gang up on one person like a pack of hyenas. Very cowardly. Very strange.  Very odd behavior for grown adults. 

My sister, who is a pastor of a Northshore megachurch, stalked my daughter while she was in cosmetology school. She did not say hi or talk to her niece. The first time, my daughter took the initiative to let her instructors and staff know an abuser from her family was in the building. They all protected her and an instructor made sure she stayed by my daughter’s side the entire time the abuser was there. 

Well meaning friends wanted her to contact the police. However, she knows the police in this community are aligned with the megachurch cult. You can read the previous post as an example. 

This is also the same pastor who killed a latino policeman in a car crash and was NEVER tested for drugs and alcohol. 

You can see who the police protect in this town.

The second time my sister came to the school, she created a lot drama over her color service and quickly exited the building. 

It says a lot about my sister’s  character to do this to a vulnerable young woman. 

Additionally, my daughter’s father, who lives in a million dollar house and is also aligned with the megachurch pastor, refused to pay for her tuition. She was devastated. 

I, her mother, took care of it. 

In spite of their toxic attempts to derail her education, my daughter passed her written State Board exam and graduated a little over a week ago at the top of her class. 

Quoting one of her instructors, who wrote on her card, “You did the damn thing!” All the family members, who voiced their doubt that she could do it, go fuck yourselves!

We had a lovely graduation day. Her instructors gave her heart felt and sincere speeches. I bought her a car, fully paid for, because she deserved it! 

I am one proud Mama!